Arrrgh I don't actually know what I am expecting from this. I've come to the very end of a long stressful bumpy relationship (lies, gambling, addiction, cheating) and now finally I'm broke, literally. I can't believe I have let this happen.
I'm a fragment of the woman I was before I got in a relationship with him. A very long story short - we don't have kids, I've been dealt the last straw (photos of his ex on his on his recent pictures, just sat at the side of him and he was showing me something and I asked what it was... a memory had popped up on his facebook so he screenshot it to send her apparently, but didnt because he knew it was wrong - not sorry either, just defensive and called me an idiot for looking over at his phone). They keep in touch as they have a property together still, she is living in it. We've been together 2 years though.
He doesn't have anywhere else to go, or wont. I am now past the point of crying and being upset I just want him to leave. He cant grasp the fact that I would be the one to end it, hes 10 years older, its my house, he's really outgoing and "fun" and just says "ill speak to you tomorrow when you aren't mad" - I've never been in this situation before but how the hell do you tell someone who's manipulative to get the hell out ? He thinks i'll be sorry tomorrow and don't mean what I've said. I'm looking for a way to end things but I think he already has... he's just lingering in my home !