Oral sex in a stable relationship

[Mimo333]

Hi All! Me and my boyfriend moved in together and naturally we are having now more sex. Almost everytime we have sex we also have oral sex. I was never a big fan of it, I do not necessarily enjoy anyone going down on me (perhaps because I'm not very sensitive down there) and I would enjoy more giving him head more rarely. Also, not sure if it's because of oral sex, but since I am more active sexually with my partner, I had cystitis which doesn't seem to fully treat itself. Don't get me wrong, I am quite open to sexual experiences, but I just don't think is needed to go porn mode each time. I mentioned that to him and he was in a bit of shock and I believe somehow disappointed because he loves giving and taking.
Do you guys think I am crazy ?? Cause I've read more threads and people seem to be doing this a few times a day without any worries.

Both giving d receiving can be a very common part of sex in an established relationship, yes, but not all relationships. Lots of men think that all women should love receiving oral because most men love receiving oral more than anything in the world, but it's different for women. This sex therapist explains to men in a short reel that women need foreplay before oral, that going down on her straight away can just be too much, overstimulating, you might feel cold, self-conscious, whatever - you need to be properly warmed up before he goes there.
If he enjoys giving and receiving so much then it's a loving and kind thing to give your partner that pleasure. It's lovely to be able to make the person you love so happy, so easily. But that doesn't mean you have to do it every single time!

You might like this quick article about how Romance for women is like blow jobs for men.

Don't believe everything you read about people and their mad crazy sex lives. You should never feel pressured into something you are not comfortable with, and that includes oral sex

Sex doesn’t always have to include oral or be “the same” every time. Sometimes it’ll be quicker and less foreplay and other times it may last a lot longer it just depends on what moods you are both in. I love oral both giving and receiving but my wife isn’t always up for it which I understand and respect. We have kids so it can’t always be long and it needs to be quick incase we are disturbed but when it is longer sessions with more foreplay or massages we appreciate it a lot more.
I suppose aswell because you have just moved in together it’s almost like the honeymoon period again but don’t worry he will understand and things will work themselves out.

I do understand and the point of my post I believe is different. My wife is initiating giving me a blowjob and I’m not enjoying it because it feels like she is doing it for the sake of it and also not enjoying but I feel like it’s an awkward conversation to have with her as I don’t want to offend her.
not sure why you’ve tagged my post in two separate posts. Very weird!

Now this days looks like a lot of woman's lost interest in having a love partner and to enjoy life.
I am married but my sexual life is lost
Since she is going through menopause she doesn't have any feelings.
I just can't turn her on.
I want to see if any one gets same problems!
I will wait to find a partner that wants to find a sexual partner

You know what you like . You shouldn't feel you have to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable.
Oral sex is ( in my book not porn mode ) but each to their own .