Hi, do you think it is possible to go from imagining your life out of a relationship to get back to feeling happy with that person? I have been struggling with feeling like my needs haven't been met in my relationship. I spend a lot of time with friends as he never wanted to go out and is always going on about spending money. He doesn't make any effort with my birthday or make me feel special at all which I feel is important. He also has some temper issues, there's been quite a few occasions of him speaking to me badly and I am on eggshells a lot. I am struggling to get past it all. It hasn't felt that we are a team and I probably haven't been nice to him either recently. I had been thinking I want to break up even though I still enjoy his company but when I have spoke to him he's been very apologetic and willing to change. He has improved since we first chatted about the problems but I just don't know how to let go of the past or if I need to be brave and move on.