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Texting ex

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Tokaha · 28/07/2024 08:50

Hey
So my gf broke up with me 4 months ago. It was a healthy breakup. We are both young (17,18). The reason we broke up was that my parents had so much control over me, and because I grew up like that I've never realized. And that had impacted our relationship. I think it was good to breakup cause otherwise I would never have found out that I have to become more independent but also mistakes I made.
After 4 months of no contact I sent her letter asking to meetup. So we met up last week and it went so well. We were both in a good mood, hugged each other long and talked about our lifes.
Next week I will go abroad for 6 months to another continent. I do this because I want to grow personally and take more responsibility for my life. And I also want to show her that yes I really want to change for her.
I really believe in true love and think in her heart she loves me too, just the connection is gone.
I don't want to not text her until I'm back home, so my question is how should I reach out to her during my time abroad?

OP posts:
Lostworlds · 28/07/2024 19:28

You just send her a text asking how she is and what she’s been up to. If she wants to reply then she will.
Personally I would use this trip to enjoy yourself and explore a bit! What’s meant to be will be and at 18, you’ve got your whole world ahead of you.

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