Urgh, I don’t know where to start. I’ve been with my partner for 4 years. We have a young child. I work, take care of the house and our child, and he works. He vapes weed (outside the house) daily and drinks every few days. He has on average 3-4 drinks and mixes this with the weed. I’m t-total. His behaviour when he has had a drink k is erratic. He says nasty things and acts in a horrible manner. This evening I asked for a cuddle in bed. He denied me a cuddle and made passive aggressive comments. I picked him up on it and he started swearing at me, calling me a b*>>£ and to fx£k off. This isn’t a rare occurrence. We saw a relationship counsellor a while ago and she suggested that I leave, but it’s difficult as I’m financially reliant on my partner. He is lazy around the house, and it feels like I’ve got two kids. I feel like I’m loosing feelings for him. He’s also impatient and shows a lot of contempt towards me on a daily basis which I find strange. He’s easy to anger, and I feel like I am walking in eggshells which isn’t nice.