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Anonymous3456 · 25/07/2024 19:55

I have known this guy since 2021 from a dating app. First meeting was at his house I got a bit loose and had sex with him..second meeting again was at his place but nothing happened. That year we went mute on each other and last year in March we reconnected with the help of TikTok. We talked and decided to see were things go. It's been a year and his never taken me out on a public date I have only met one of his friends because he moved in with him. I'm pretty sure if his friend was not leaving with him I wouldn't have met him. He claims I make him happy but is too broke to take me out on a public date. This man rents out the rooms in his house and has over 10 perfumes and some of which are expensive to me. His never got me a gift, could I just be booty call or maybe he is really too broke, could I not be his type?
I'm scared I have fallen for someone that is just using me.
I never demand for things from him, he never pays for my hair and has never paid for my transport whenever I visit him.
Please help me for I'm confused, I have even started working out just so I can get a Kim k body changed my dressing just hoping maybe he would one day show me off to his friends and the public.

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maras2 · 25/07/2024 20:20

WTAF? 😷

StormingNorman · 25/07/2024 20:24

Why would he pay for your hair?

And what is the photo about?

Ultimately, I think you are a booty call.

SamW98 · 25/07/2024 20:43

So much wrong with this

First all why on earth would you expect someone you’re casually dating to pay for your hair or travel?

And if you want more than a casual situation ship, don’t agree to go to his house for your first ‘date’

Any man worth dating wouldn’t expect you to go to his house rather than meet in a bar/cafe/restaurant for the first few dates. He sees you as a hook up and he presents you’re ok with that I would say.

wombpaloumbpa · 26/07/2024 07:35

I think you know that you have fallen for someone who is just using you.

Going out together is fun, you have your whole life to sit indoors when you are old.

There is something way better out there for you!

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