AIBU - Been with my DH 17 years and in the last 6 months intimacy/attention has decreased rapidly. Feels as if everything he knows about me and my body has been forgotten (likes/wants/needs in the bedroom etc). Doing the dance less and less frequently, I make the effort then get left unsatisfied... Discussed it calmly a few times, explained how I'm feeling distant and unwanted etc. Get told 'we are ok' then it continues.
We are very open with phones/ipads etc but in the last week I stumbled across a social media account of his under a fake name, couldn't resist taking a peek at the activity! It is all likes and comments on various scantily clad women/ porn stars etc. AIBU feeling almost cheated on? In my mind this would be ok if our relationship was good as before, but I'm not coping with the thought of him giving all his attention to these women and neglecting me...