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Toxic relationships at work

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crampyi · 23/07/2024 21:34

My manager (40s) came on to me (20s) and sexually harassed me. I complained about him, nothing was done, and now he’s trying to discredit me and throw falsified disciplinary action at me in an attempt to retaliate & get rid of me. He is not even being discreet, so I have a lot of evidence I can use to defend myself.

However ultimately I am looking for jobs, I don’t want to stay with this employer regardless. I have taken some time off work for stress. He still continues to message me on a daily basis and be unreasonable. It’s relentless. My question is how can I stop myself from having an emotional response to what he’s doing? I know he’s toxic and expect him to act irrationally, so I shouldn’t be surprised that he continues to act in this manner. I’m only enduring until I can get a new job, as I can’t afford to not earn an income until I get a new job.

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Numnumbirdy · 23/07/2024 21:50

Talk to ACAS https://www.acas.org.uk/dealing-with-workplace-problems
raise a formal grievance.

keep a log of everything and do not delete any of the messages. What are the whistleblowing procedures at your firm?

Dealing with problems at work | Acas

Advice on how to raise and resolve problems at work, either informally or formally

https://www.acas.org.uk/dealing-with-workplace-problems

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