I have been together with my partner for nearly 4 years in October. He is a great dad. But, I am finding myself becoming more and more frustrated/unhappy with my relationship, he just doesn't make effort with me or anything any more, he doesn't kiss me and when he does its a peck, whenever we have sex he just tells me to ' bend over ' that's all it ever is, just a quicky. Theirs no passion any more no affection and it's really making me unhappy, I just feel used after we have sex, he doesn't cuddle me after he will just say night and turn the other way. He goes on at me over the littlest things, I went to my friends house when the children were at school, he said why am I going out if I have chores to do in the house? I literally always do chores. I'm a mum of 4 and it's challenging and now I'm starting to feel fed up.
He has started drinking aswell, he's always drank beer but recently it's getting more and I'm getting so tired of smelling it on him or him telling me to have a drink, I really don't want too, I just want to feel happy again.
Theirs a guy on the school run whom always says hello and speaks to me and its actually nice to have abit of attention even if it means nothing, I just want to feel excitement again!
Is any of this normal? Will it get better?