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Husband issues

27 replies

belle1408 · 22/07/2024 20:51

I will try and keep this brief but would appreciate some honest opinions. I caught my teenage daughter vaping and took the vape off her. Stupidly I thought I would try it (I have always wanted to vape, stupid I know, but haven’t because of the dangers and what my husband would think). So I thought I would try hers and my husband walks in on me. I hide the vape but he sees a cloud of smoke and asks me if I’m vaping/smoking. I stupidly say no, you must be seeing things etc. After less than a minute I come clean, explains it’s my daughters and was trying it. Since then he has barely spoken to me and keeps saying about me lying to him and I made him feel like he was going crazy for seeing the smoke, how he would never lie to me etc. I know I shouldn’t have lied but it was a moment of madness in being caught. He’s making me feel terrible. I apologised for lying, said I was embarrassed at being caught. Not sure what I’m asking but he’s making me feel like the worst wife in the world.

OP posts:
Watchkeys · 28/07/2024 09:09

What would happen if you stopped making excuses for him?

Capeprimrose · 28/07/2024 10:08

He is a controlling abusive headcase.

Totally unhinged.
Of course you can vape.

I too found a vape in my daughters room and tried it.
A totally normal thing to do, to see what all the fuss is about.

NOW I get why kids like them and they are so addictive.
The one I tried was cherry flavour and most pleasant!

Fortunately my daughter is not doing it and we had the chat.
They are toxic and so addictive.

Anyway, he is a nasty bully.
Please call Womens aid for support.
You are being abused.

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