I’ve been with my husband for 20 years, 10 years married. We have 5 children together and things are just so plain and boring. We have recently come back from a weeks holiday where it was just the 2 of us and I noticed him eyeing up other woman in bikinis, thongs, big boobs you name it. It really got to me and I was awfully upset after it but didn’t. Say anything to him. I’m a size 14 so not slim. I have literally begged him for so many years to please pay me some attention but he won’t. We don’t sleep together, he don’t hug me, he don’t kiss me or anything and I’m really starting to get fed up. We had a major bust up over this yesterday and all he said was you need to see a doctor! Like it’s my fault that I want attention from my husband. Our children range from 5-16 but there is a 20 year age gap between us. Am I Being unreasonable? I have asked him to leave on many occasions but he won’t go. This is upsetting me so much that I really can’t be bothered with him anymore