I was going to start going back in august as I've got swimming lessons booked - I was really looking forward to going back- but I realise I'm going to have to cancel this it because the dad is a member there and I don't want to run into him.
He's not single either but I do know he's attracted to me. I could tell from our conversations. That was probably why I started 'noticing' him. My crush was the result of getting strong vibes from him.
Anyway his family have gone away for a couple of weeks so if I can get the idea of him out of my system by then I'll be fine.
Mate, you're like that US politician who says he can't/won't be alone with a woman other than his wife..... Do you not have any self control/respect??!
He's an attractive man, so ... - there are a few around.
It seems like he's attracted to you ... I'm sure it's happened before in your life, eh.
So what?
He's married.
He's not single,
he's not available.
He's got kids
He might have leaked some attraction but that doesn't mean he'd ever do anything about it. I'm sure you're not the only woman he's ever been attracted to aside from his wife, while married or not.
If he were to do anything, you'd both be cheating. You'd be in danger of fucking up two families and several people's lives. You'd also be persona non grata at the school and any school afterwards that people know you at ... because you'd be the skank that fucks other school mum's husbands. Men never get judged as harshly. And people love to gossip. You'd kids might even suffer in terms of being excluded from social stuff by mums who don't want contact with you.
And don't think you won't get caught, people often do.
He probably wouldn't do anything about it , but even if he did you'd get the privilege of being a bit on the side, who'd be discarded sooner or later, probably get your feelings hurt and feel like shit - since women tend to suffer from oxytocin from sex more than men.
Most men won't voluntarily blow up a marriage, life, finances and their kids home ..... Whether they play away or not.
Anyway, I can tell you that hot school Dads know they're hot, they like women, they like a bit of attention/gratification etc. and if they show attraction to you; you can bet they do the same to pretty much any attractive school Mum.
Because the hot school Dad at our school was doing it to me, and then I heard a comment from another Mum (who's good looking) that suggested he was doing that to her too. They're probably not even doing it on purpose.
Go to the gym.
If your thoughts stray, think about his wedding photos that are most likely on he and his wife's wall at home. Think about them taking their kids home from hospital as babies, think about them sharing a bed and having sex, think about them spending time with their parents and families, think about them organising and going on their holidays. They are a couple, he'd probably do nothing or if he did anything he'd probably only use you for gratification and sex and then list all the reasons he can't leave. Forget about him, decide whether you want to stay in the marriage or not, without muddying the waters with stupid crushes.