Hi my partner and I have been together for 12 years. I have always had this passing feeling that he maybe homosexual but I have tried to ignore it. About 6 months ago he used my laptop and left himself logged into reddit and its left me with so many questions. He is a member of 'gaybros' group, talked about encounters he's had with other men and I really think he is gay. But I feel sad for him that he hasn't been able to express himself but also sad for me that were here. I don't know what to do whether to confront him or not. It doesn't feel right to keep pretending I don't know but also doesn't feel right to ask him about it because I don't know how he will handle it. He has no idea I know. We have a young son who is 4 years old and I don't want him to grow up and his dad is living a lie qnd he can't be fully himself with him over something so important. Any advice would be appreciated.