I can't use the one that really matters - aggression toward ds. Because he has rages and he will tell DS that he is to blame - he has already said things like this in his rages to dc. I really dont' want dc to hear that right now.
So, I need some grounds that are innocuous. But I can't think of any. The real ones are all really big, and I don't want to use them, eg physical problems with s*x, due probably to depression. We are still speaking at the moment, and I'd like to keep it that way.
does anyone have any examples they can share? I understand that they can be very mild reasons