My partner of 20+ years- I've caught him arranging g viagara through a friend when he was on a business trip abroad. Recently confined him about it BUT he simply denies it and won't talk at all about it! I'm not coping with it. I need answers. Even told him to just be honest and tell me the truth and I so t mention it again! (Idiot). Anyway last night I asked again to talk about his continuing secretive lifestyle( taking another home in France) - anyway last night he told me he loves me but he doesn't LIKE me! What does this even mean? Does he mean it's over? I've been so good to him. He's 12 years older than me and I have two step children whom I took under my wing. Unbelievably ungrateful and such a user. I still care inform him but he's a brutal and nasty person which I didn't see until now. Do I end it? Or is he having a mid life crisis that he will get over? I've nobody else to talk to about this.