mine was.. I and my daughter had moved into my soon to be husbands apartment that he shared with his two boys (my sons now.. their mom agrees) The boys were offended when I moved in as I brought candles..nicer furniture and omg.. decor. LOL. We had a very quick courtship and engagement and wedding. Our youngest boy came in one day after school before wedding date was made solid (he would have been about 9) and saw me packing up my candles and my ornaments. He started crying. I asked what was wrong. He said "you are leaving us..just like moms boyfriends always do!!) hugged the little idiot (can say that now as he is 31) and told him...NO we are moving to a new house, we told you about looking for a house. I am just getting ahead of it. He switch to cool boy..ya whatever ma.. I knew that lmao.