Break up

[Kakk]

Hi,
Me and my girlfriend are together for more than 2 years. She is very pretty and lovely but have been suffering from several health issues from cancer to getting her ovary removed. And now issues in her uterus. Doctors are not very confident if her issues can be treated and it is going on for a long period of time. 10 days back she called me said she can't continue relationship because she is emotionally, mentally fucked up. It was very sudden. I love her very much and just can't live without her. We had plans to get married in future and our parents also knew about everything. I am trying to get her back but she is adamant. My mother says anyways I shouldn't have married her because I should think practically. It will be very problematic for us considering her health issues and the resulting mental traumas( she has been getting suicidals thoughts for several years now). I also know that but I love her so much that I am finding ways to be with her. Just like hoping that she will get well forever. But she does not want to continue. What should I?

Give her some space which is soooooo hard to do!

She has had some life changing (?) information and that will mess with anyone. I know that if it was me there would be a huge part of me pushing someone away because I didnt want to be a burden etc... especially if you are young with whole life ahead, kids etc... which you sound like.

What I would do is calmly say you are going to back away for say a week. Just to give her some headspace but if she needs you in say 3 days you will be there. Let her decide. Tell her you have thought about this a lot, how this may affect you etc but you love her and want to be there.

Say that if it was because the spark was gone, she didnt fancy you or met someone else then yo would walk away, but in this case she is not leaving for the right reasons so you want to make a go of it.