My husband and I have been married 7 years. I've never had concerns about him cheating. He's always said he hasn't got time for it, doesn't agree with it, what's the point, if he people are unhappy they should leave the relationship blah blah blah. This is my attitude also.
I've never been jealous or paranoid about him cheating until a few weeks ago. I've never been like that in any relationship.
A few weeks ago we'd had an argument about something and nothing. I can't remember what about. He said I feel you don't want me here. It was what he said in that argument that made me think something is off. He said " if you don't want me here, then tell me now, while I still have time" I said what a strange thing to say. Still have time for what exactly? He said. " While I'm still young enough to move on and have a life"
I said no more and moved on. But this really stuck in my head. I've been quietly observing since. I've carried on as normal and not mentioned anything about it.
For quite a while now he stays up late. This isn't new. We don't go to bed together anymore and there's not really any intimacy. On my behalf it's because I'm tired and fast asleep when he's going to bed.
This morning I had a text on my phone from him. Which was obviously sent accidentally to me. It said "boo, going to the beach" I dunno if it was a question? We don't live near any beach. I'm just so confused? He has also took his phone to bed every single night. This is a new thing. Like me, he'd usually leave it in the living room and charge overnight. He's not been going out anywhere. But I m thinking he is talking to another woman.