I’m separated from my husband. He had an affair which I’m really only realising was the final straw.
and I’m questioning everything in our relationship now.
One thing that plays on my minds recently is that I don’t think he ever really LIKED me as a person. We worked together for an while and I would call into him. He always stood up and directed me towards the door after a few minutes. Yes he’s working….but he wouldn’t dream of doing this to others who would do the same, calling in to him (he’s a teacher….its between classes)
He would barely communicate with me, yet send paragraphs of texts to acquaintances.
He also never socialised with me, or begrudgingly did so only if he had to. If we went out (rarely) he would sit with others and spend the night talking to everyone but me!
im not bad company! I know I’m kind, witty and have a variety of interests. I have many friends. Yet he seemed to only have acquaintances.
I wish I could say it only recently was like this, but it’s actually been this way long long before we married 5 years ago.
I guess I’m just so confused that I missed so many red flags and maybe I might alert anyone in the same situation.