Feeling very sorry for myself, my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me yesterday, not entirely out of the blue but somewhat unexpectedly. No hard feelings, no reason to hate him or him hate me. I truly believed he was the one, he felt differently. I’m heartbroken and my chest has ached all day but I also think I’m doing a little better than I expected.
Initially we said oh we won’t block etc. but today we agreed we would indeed block and go no contact.
This isn’t my first break up but in the past it’s been very easy for me to see why we broke up, there was abuse and narcissistic behaviour and I was angry more than sad when it ended. Today I’m just sad.
So hit me with your best break up advice. So far my lovely sister has said “If true love is them picking you in a room filled with everyone they have ever known, why would you want to be with someone who won’t even pick you in a room where you’re the only one in it”.
Help me lick my wounds please.