On Monday DH and I had words. Well I spoke, he (sort of) listened.
It all came out, I'm fed up of his lazy ways and most importantly I'm sick and tired of playing referee between him and my older teens! Loads of other stuff too but would have to write an essay haha.
He is childish, petty and sulks if things are not 'his way'. I've had enough.
I said I need a break to think about our future.
He has gone to stay with his mum, just for the weekend (I'm going to suggest longer) and it has been absolute bliss.
He went yesterday. Me and teens ate dinner together last night for the first time in months as they can't really stand to be in the same room as him.
I got up this morning, done all the housework without seething that he is lazing about while I'm busy and sat and watched the tennis without constant moans (because he wants to play games console)!
Our 5 year old asked first thing this morning where Daddy is and has not asked again all day.
I know it's only been 1 day but I feel relaxed and happy.
I think our marriage is over, I just need to tell him now.
No point to this post, just feels good to get it off my chest.