I was with a man for a year and we broke up around a year ago now. I was madly in love with him but in the end he became jealous and possessive as wel as going out too much.
he got back in touch around 2 months ago and has spent that time sending me flowers, gifts, letters etc all explaining how wrong he was an show much he changed. I was sceptical but it seemed sincere.
I have started spending some time with his (as friends, not yet anything more) and was enjoying it. I visited a friend at the weekend and we went out for some food and drinks. My ex asked me about my night and said did I chat right any men, I said I hadn’t but my friend had and he immediately went straight back into the jealous mode asking me if I was lying, what was I smiling when I answered him etc. he then kicked up a big fuss and basically said why doesn’t he go round telling everyone I’m such a great shag so that I can get any man I want.
honestly I’m so confused as it how this just turned. Do you think the attempts at getting me back were the real changed him or just for show?