Have lead a long healthy happy marriage with my dh
for 20 years i am 38 he is 42
He has always been a practising Muslim I am also very
religous conscious
At the beginning of the year my dh decided to he
wanted to be more conscious and spend more time
performing prayer prothets sunnah reciting kur'an etc
and also joined a
suffism group which lead to less famiky time. We have
always had a active enjoyable
sex life untill recently were he now says oral sexs
makes him religiously uncomfortable and he felt guilt
even if
there is no clear evidence it is haram it is very close
to haram he says and as his human right I guess I have
to
respect that but i have become very unhappy with the
situation for me giving oral initiates arousal on my
part and i feel deprived now and this is causing
some arguments or me to become irritable with him
because lam not reaching the full pleasure from my
marriage I have always been used too also less family
time has taken its toll we "du had started lartea ttc ttc again again but i
feel it is
Not a good idea as i am geeling increasinly unahappy