I have such a miserable, endlessly exhausting relationship with my mother. She is a wonderful person but life is perpetual chaos, long abusive messages (accusing me of hating on her), emotional drama all the time. My self esteem has always been so poor because of her actions.
she has few people in her life that really matter to her so I am it. I'm in therapy about myself, my son and now my marriage, but I just can't find a way of discussing things that will help us have a functioning relationship. Has anyone else had to endure this and how have you done it? I beginning to think my therapist is not quite experienced enough. Would love to know what kind of therapy has worked for you!!