Looking for some advice really, ahead of a holiday with a family member who often makes me feel not heard.
She often talks over me, doesn't listen to my reply, and the bit that bothers me the most is she keeps ON about a topic (it can be anything).
For example, it could be:
Her:do you want a hot chocolate?
Me: no thanks
Her: are you sure you dont want a drink?
Me: no, I'm fine thanks
Her: you look cold, let me make you a hot chocolate
Me: no honestly, I'm fine, thank you
Her: oh go on, it's cold. I can make you one
Etc etc etc
She means well but it's draining and just makes me feel unheard (which reminds me of my childhood... another story!)
How can I be polite but assertive and stop the unnecessary repetition?
Thanks!