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Break up advice

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KookyEagle · 07/07/2024 21:46

Hi hope everyone is okay :)

I have just broken up with my boyfriend :( was together 10 months and at first he was so full on spending time together, telling me I was the missing piece of his life, told me he loved me quite early on. He worked away 3 days of the week and would come see me on his way home and before he would leave. We both lived with our parents so got every opportunity when parents were out for alone time. We had a weekend away for Christmas and a week away abroad in April which was such a good holiday we had a great time being together. After holidays his work got really full on to 4/5 days so would be away 5/6 days with the travelling and then he started spending more time with his friends. I wasn’t too worried to begin with then it became a lot and I became less of a priority which happened for around 2 months I would ask him if everything is okay? And he would say yes I am working hard to provide a house for us and wanted a baby together and said he was looking forward to the future (this was after the holiday but becoming more distant) he would say he loved me every night. Until last week when I called him out and was like you are not being honest something is defo wrong and I pushed him to admit that he had fallen out of love with me and had focused on work more since April and because he hadn’t spent time with me he drifted away. Now he is saying he cares a lot about me and the problem with breaking up is he does like talking to me. Is he just being nice to protect my feelings? I told him I had given him my whole heart and it was broken after all the false promises and making me believe I was his forever when he had checked out months ago. :/

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FloydPink · 07/07/2024 22:40

Not the same but similar for me as in my ex GF was trying to be nice to me - in that she said she still had feelings for her ex but we just got on with things. Then we split and got back together numerous times in last few months because she kept going hot & cold. When we were together it was amazing and we both struggled to go quiet on each other, both missed each other loads.

She was not being fair to me (her words) and I should have just walked away.

She had my heart and I guess I feel a bit betrayed too, but it was my decision to stay on the scene. All I can offer is that while it feels rubbish, that was not right and had it ended in 2 years time may well have been worse/harder

cupcaske123 · 07/07/2024 22:44

Just block him. He's stringing you along, has been for months. Do a 30 day complete detox. Move on.

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