Partner went out for July 4 yesterday to his friends house. Was due to be just lads because his friends wife had to stay behind because her sister was having relationship troubles. Didn’t say anything about it. We ALWAYS text each other when we get home and usually throughout the night to say just got to the bar! Or home now goodnight! Just basic courtesy texts. Anyway I went to sleep last night woke up to…. Nothing.
I went on IG and saw his friends wife had actually gone to meet them in the evening (with her recently single sister) and posted my partner on the beach letting off fireworks and having a jolly good time.
there is about 5 men and 2 women. I woke up fuming that my partner didn’t text me like he usually would and found out that the girls did go. I’m not insecure but it made me feel really shit. Then when I spoke to him about it no apology or anything and the usual I’m crazy, are no women allowed to be there, saying one of his friends mums who is 50 is there (the own the house) and no validating my feelings at all. We are in a long distance relationship as I’m working away right now so these small texts and communication means a lot. I just hate his reaction. And now again he is sleeping at his friends house and this newly single girl is there too. He stays in bunkers apparently and she shared a room with her sister? I just feel really uncomfortable and would prefer if he spent the day there and drove (a hour) home. Is that being unreasonable? He says he shouldn’t leave as he planned to stay there, but he didn’t he said he might leave Friday night depending.
on top of that, he does not want me staying at my friends house tonight incase there are guys there!! Please some advice😂