Long story short stayed friend with an ex (we have known each other years before we got together). We still occasionally go out for meals and to the cinema. I have put a lot of weight on with meds the last couple of years and he is aware of this. On our way to the restaurant, I stood on a paving stone and it wobbled and splashed water all over my foot. He commented “if anyone else stood on that it would’ve moved”. I’m not upset just disappointed that he thinks it’s ok to say this. I’m late 40s he’s early 50s.