Is it a conscious effort? My husband seems to have checked out. He shows no interest in me. Comes home and says hello then watches videos on his phone. I work evenings so don't see him much as it is. He will go out for walks, doesn't plan activities unless it's with his friends, doesn't really what's app but does his mates. He often goes to bed before me as he's so knackered. Every couple of months I'll bring up that we don't do anything together ( can't go out as have no babysitters but we don't do anything when kids in bed) and thus we will do a craft I suggest but then that's it.
Yet he seems perfectly happy? He's become really social in the last few years, wanting to have people round for dinner etc, but he's not sociable with me. To be fair he's been like that for years, at kids birthday parties he would just sit on his phone playing games but now he's off trying to chat to everyone. Any advice?