My husband can’t or won’t talk about anything serious . We never row because he just ignores the problem and me . I broached the subject of us growing apart and separating a few months ago and except for hello or goodbye he has mostly ignored me since . I even asked if he had a one night stand and he denied it but wasn’t outraged like I would have been . We were away at a match last week and he txt my teenage son where to meet after instead of txting his wife of 15 years . This really hurt me . There is no sex and in fact the last time we had sex looking back he tried to put me off . We never do anything together anymore , no nights out , we used to do something for his birthdays because I organised it but iv given up , for my last birthday he got me cheap earrings and perfume when he knew I wanted a night away to try and reconnect . We sleep in the same bed and I feel so sad and lonely . I know he won’t move out and I have no money and no where to go . We are late 40’s and I feel so sad that this is my life , we used to have such fun . Our teenage boys will be devastated if we separate and he is a good dad just a shit husband . He sleeps soundly every night , he’s not depressed and to the rest of the world is such a great family man . What can I do I feel it’s gone to far now to ever get any love or trust back .