Would you be OK with your boyfriend keeping photos of ex’s including ones focused on their breasts? Especially if they were still in some level of contact with them? I’m not and it’s one of the things he apparently can’t see an issue with as he’s with me now.
I struggle with understanding jokes and he would sent flirtatious messages to female friends, he said they’re not genuine and It’s just banter and funny to pretend to be sleazy.
He spoke about any relationship issues with an ex girlfriend, she’s been a friend for years now. Even our sex life and when I was excited about a potential pregnancy that I hadn’t told anyone else about (it was negative). They would go on about how crazy I am, calling me names.
We took a break but are still in contact and haven’t had intimacy or sex in 10 months, and things are really rocky. He won’t even apologise for any of it and doesn’t see the issue I have with any of this. Like me he wants to stop the fights and go back to normal, we like each other but he’s said if I don’t let the issues go and stop talking about them he doesn’t want to be nice to me.