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Ash2345f · 01/07/2024 13:32

So I’ve been exclusively with a guy coming up to four months now we see each other sometimes only once a week sometimes twice due to childcare between us. I’ve completely gotten in my own head here that this isn’t enough to continue to progress things the way I want them to. We plan dates the time spent together is amazing but is that enough?!. Communication at times can be a little hit and miss can leave me on delivered at times but he is consistent am I just overthinking things I think it’s because I really like him and don’t want things to fizzle out. How do people keep the spark going when they can’t see each other as much?

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HowIrresponsible · 01/07/2024 13:40

It's been 3 months. You both have children and childcare issues.

I'm not sure qhat you want? At this stage?

Have you even discussed with him what you want?

Aquamarine1029 · 01/07/2024 13:41

How would things be different with any other man, though? You would still have childcare issues to contend with. I think you may need to accept the fact that any relationship you enter into at this stage in your life will have to move along a bit slower than it would if children weren't involved. If the relationship has legs and the man is a good one, it will make it.

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