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Married man mixed vibes

35 replies

Roosgonnagetcha · 30/06/2024 22:57

A. Married man seems into me. But also eveytime in the pub he mentions his wife to others there 😂 its smalltown nd pub where everyone knows each other but. And mention the holidays and plans they have together etc etc.

Is he justt into me for ego?

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LetTheSunshineIn2 · 30/06/2024 23:00

Doesn't matter - he's married.

Don't give it a second thought unless he comes on to you, in which case tell him to naff off. And probably better to stay away from him altogether.

Wolfiefan · 30/06/2024 23:03

He is married. Whatever he thinks of you there is no way you need that kind of drama (or cheating shithead) in your life!

GlassofIce · 30/06/2024 23:04

Why would it matter? He’s married. It doesn’t matter whether he’d give his right arm to seduce you in the pub loo, he’s not available.

Secondstart1001 · 30/06/2024 23:16

I don’t think he’s into you. Sounds over friendly but if he’s mentioning his wife all the time it’s a reminder he is off limits! Why would you even want to go there?

Starflowerblue32 · 30/06/2024 23:57

Who cares? Hes married! ... back off, move on and get a grip.... theres plenty of single men out there , why you so interested in the married one? 😏 ... talking of egos I think it's your ego that seems to be getting a thrill from a married man showing you a bit of interest, get real

Irishmama100 · 01/07/2024 00:04

You know he is married. End of conversation!!
The End

Grendell · 01/07/2024 00:04

Married men will show interest in any woman - they have nothing to lose.

It's no prize to get the attention of a married man. It's like shooting apples in a barrel. It's too easy.

dontcryformeargentina · 01/07/2024 08:48

I agree with everyone- the bottom line - he is a married man , don't touch him with a barge pole, absolutely not worth it. He has made his choice already.

SamW98 · 01/07/2024 08:56

Starflowerblue32 · 30/06/2024 23:57

Who cares? Hes married! ... back off, move on and get a grip.... theres plenty of single men out there , why you so interested in the married one? 😏 ... talking of egos I think it's your ego that seems to be getting a thrill from a married man showing you a bit of interest, get real

Absolutely this. I’m not sure it’s his ego that’s the inflated one 🤣

3luckystars · 01/07/2024 08:59

Is there anywhere else you could go on a night out? Maybe you are a big fish in a small pond.
I would look elsewhere. Good luck.

Seas164 · 01/07/2024 08:59

He can be married, and, could fancy you. I'm not sure what the puzzle is?

He's married, you know him from a small town country pub, so unless you want to turn several people's lives upside down including your own, work out another way to get your self esteem boosted.

Ocymoroniclife · 01/07/2024 09:00

God, even taking the morality out of it, don't start an affair in a small town where everyone knows each other. It will not end well for you.

You are either misreading his vibes or he enjoys the flirting and your attention.

Isometimeswonder · 01/07/2024 09:03

Grow up

PTSDBarbiegirl · 01/07/2024 09:05

He's after a shag. Stop engaging now.

MaryMack · 01/07/2024 09:06

Find somewhere else to socialise.

Roosgonnagetcha · 01/07/2024 09:17

Seas164 · 01/07/2024 08:59

He can be married, and, could fancy you. I'm not sure what the puzzle is?

He's married, you know him from a small town country pub, so unless you want to turn several people's lives upside down including your own, work out another way to get your self esteem boosted.

I certainly don't need my self esteen boosted thanks 😂 thats not what it's about. Not an insecure little girl 😂😂🤔🤔🤔

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Roosgonnagetcha · 01/07/2024 09:20

Grendell · 01/07/2024 00:04

Married men will show interest in any woman - they have nothing to lose.

It's no prize to get the attention of a married man. It's like shooting apples in a barrel. It's too easy.

Im not some little girl pleased I've got attention 😅. I get attention from k
Lots of men all the tine and 99.9 of i have no interest in. Anyway i hgad a few drinks last night and i really don't care avoit tge sit, the town, it's pubs, its small ways

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NippyCrab · 01/07/2024 09:22

Roosgonnagetcha · 01/07/2024 09:17

I certainly don't need my self esteen boosted thanks 😂 thats not what it's about. Not an insecure little girl 😂😂🤔🤔🤔

Well what is it about? Ask him directly. Do you want him to be interested?

VaddaABeetch · 01/07/2024 09:23

I’ve had married men tell all about their lovely wives & families to tell me what a good guy they are. They don’t usually do this kind of thing but I’m so irresistible.

Yeah right. No interest in married men.

Seas164 · 01/07/2024 10:04

Roosgonnagetcha · 01/07/2024 09:17

I certainly don't need my self esteen boosted thanks 😂 thats not what it's about. Not an insecure little girl 😂😂🤔🤔🤔

Your question was is he just into me for the ego?

I'm not sure why under the circumstances that would matter, or why the answer would be of any interest to you, unless you're getting something from the exchange. That's how humans work, there's clearly some reward in his attention or you wouldn't have it on your mind to the point you're posting online about it looking for answers.

I didn't suggest you were a little girl.

MissTrip82 · 01/07/2024 10:23

Roosgonnagetcha · 01/07/2024 09:17

I certainly don't need my self esteen boosted thanks 😂 thats not what it's about. Not an insecure little girl 😂😂🤔🤔🤔

That’s great! Perhaps stop acting like one?

Thequeenofwishfulthinking · 01/07/2024 10:39

Why would you want to start something with a married man?
Its wrong. Don’t go there. You and others will get hurt including any children he has. How would you feel if this was your husband?

Thequeenofwishfulthinking · 01/07/2024 10:41

@MissTrip82 I agree. Well said.

DysonSphere · 01/07/2024 10:47

@Thequeenofwishfulthinking Why would you want to start something with a married man?

There's nothing more validating and ego boosting to some women than gaining the attentions of a married man.

It's also a turn on for the sort of people who think 'she doesn't know that he's screw* me' 😬

Thequeenofwishfulthinking · 01/07/2024 10:54

@DysonSphere Im glad I don’t need that sort of validation.
Women and children will keep getting their lives turned upside down by the pathetic men who cheat with these selfish attention seekers. We women should stick together.
These people are weak and don’t have empathy or backbone.