This is the first time posting so please bare with me.
I'm 37 married 14 years with 2 DS ages 15 and 13.
We own our home with a modest mortgage and both work full time. Sounds ideal but my husband is the problem.... he always has been. In the beginning it was so he would dissappear for days on end, couldn't hold down a Job, banned for drink driving you name it he did it. But I stayed 😔 just hoping it would ger better. Times moved on now he has a good ish Job pays his share etc. But I have zero respect for him. He drinks every night then passes out for about 8pm then is asleep and off to work in the morning. We have no life at all he thinks he is funny and loving when he is drunk but it's just annoying I have asked him to please stop and it falls on deaf ears. I know the answer will be to leave, I have no one to turn to or any place to go. I'm drowning in debt which he more than helped put me in and the mortgage is in my sole name. I can't sell without his permission as he has home rights. I suppose I'm not looking for a solution just to be heard. I feel like running away and never looking back but I cant my kids need me.