OK - I've been feeling ill (horrible cold, terrible hacking cough, plus hideous period) for the last week, and the DCs have also been ill and irritating.
DH has been totally bloody unsympathetic (which isn't really like him). He's been coming back late for lunch and supper (we all eat together, and the DCs are tired and ratty if he gets back late). I asked him for cough medicine yesterday and specified that I needed the strongest stuff available, and he got some shitey stuff because he couldn't be bothered to queue at the pharmacy bit in Tesco. I asked him to change DS's nappy this morning and he didn't do it, and wasn't even remotely apologetic about it.
OK. I'm writing this and I'm aware that I sound like a wanker cos tghey are such minor quibbles, BUT I'm fucking tired and ill and his attitude has been twatty.
Soooo, I've been sulking massively since yesterday. DH has mostly been ignoring me, but when he got home this evening he semi-apologised (tried to hug me in a 'you know you want to' sort of way), but kept making jibes to the DCs about 'Mummy being in such a strop' etc. Basically I just felt like he was wanting to smoothe things over, but didn't actually give a shit that I've been feeling ill or recognising that he could have been more supportive.
So I rejected the apology I told him how I felt, and resumed sulking.
However, we need to talk about various urgentish things (mainly finalising a holiday booking) and he has stormed off to bed saying 'cancel the holiday, I don;t want to spend time with you'
What do I do now? I'm still pissed off, but I's hurt that he wants to cancel the holiday, and I still think he's been a wanker about me being ill.
(If you've made it through this incoherent rant, thank you!!)