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Daughter’s Cheating Boyfriend

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marmitencheese · 29/06/2024 17:46

Our daughter is currently away with bf and has discovered overnight that he has been cheating with multiple people; she did go through his ‘phone and has names/numbers of those involved. She hasn’t said anything to him and was awake most of the night. Fortunately, she was able to contact us when he was asleep as she went to hotel reception to use WiFi. We have told her to just get back to UK safely (due back Mon), not much else we can do. They don’t live together so she will be going ‘home’ on Monday - it’s heartbreaking to see her like this and she knows what/how she wants to do it? Just choosing her moment to ‘finish things’ - feel very emotional, ‘churned up’ and anxious 😢 they have been together for 2 years

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marmitencheese · 29/06/2024 18:08

Yes she had her suspicions; he has been obnoxious towards us/siblings/friends and basically no-one likes him because of his treatment of her. We’re only worried about her travelling safely home because not only does she have a 14 hour flight to do, but she is ‘working’ (he had gone on work trip)

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marmitencheese · 29/06/2024 18:37

yes She is keeping it to herself ‘til back in UK - thank you it’s not a nice situation for her 😢

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Idontknowwhattodo78 · 29/06/2024 18:47

Well. More fool him. Get your DD home and safe and get rid of that human excrement. He’s no loss and in time she will see that.

marmitencheese · 29/06/2024 18:51

Thank you - I feel sick about it 😢

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Cerialkiller · 29/06/2024 18:57

I would advise her to pretend to be ill. Something grim enough that he won't want to go near her and an excuse to stay in bed or do things separately but appreciate she may want to enjoy her time away. The thought of having to pretend and accept kisses and hugs etc makes me feel icky so hope she has a plan for that.

Theneverendingcycle · 29/06/2024 19:01

Poor girl my heart breaks for her I'm glad she has found out now so no more wasted time for her I'm sorry op

seensome · 29/06/2024 19:06

Sounds like she's being sensible by not be angry at him yet, id fake feeling unwell, to keep a distance. At least they don't live together, she'll never have to see him again once she's back.

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