My friend's ex is unemployed, controlling, does drugs, smoke and is an alcoholic.
He has messaged me a few times to say he is interested. I have been very firm and said I am not interested and that I am in a happy relationship. I feel he is violating boundaries and won't take no for answer. I have sworn at him and that don't stop him.
I don't like fall outs but I just want to delete him as he has no respect for me or my partner. I have never been interested and never will.
He said he thought I was nice when he first met me at her mother's funeral, awful and sick of him to say that. He should have supported her and not perving over her mates. He even told her dad who he moved in with, auntie and brother in law to f* off on different occasions and the dad stopped with his other daughter for a few days after bwing sworn at! That boyfriend should have been made to move out straight away.
She still talks to him out of loneliness so is not serious about moving on after the disrespect he has shown to everyone.