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[Greenfly07]

So I've been dating guy I really like since October, he's separated from ex and children live with him, his ex wants them to work things out, but he said that ship had sailed. Then she messaged me five months in to say they were still sleeping together, he denied it till now! And has now admitted in the beginning of our relationship he did. 😓Where do I go from here?

Well, I wouldn't personally date a liar and a cheat who is still enmeshed with his ex. What about you?

I wouldn't do it to someone, no

Hmmm, I m afraid they are not finished. He has kids with her, therefore there is a chance that he will give it another go down the line. I think you are wasting time with him. Unless you want to use him only for sex while looking elsewhere, drop him. If you feel you begin feel emotionally attached to him better leave because this is not going to end up well for you. He may confessed he was sleeping with her so that you break up with him.

Ditch the pig obviously

Much too soon Op, he hasn't detached from his ex yet, nor has she from him. This will be nothing but trouble for you. Let him go he's not ready for aoither relationship yet

So he’s cheated on you (and her), and lied about it.

You really don’t need to ask the question. Ditch him.

You leave him. End it. Pull yourself together and don't allow anyone to treat you this way!

Even if they are actually over now, the fact is he lied to you and cheated on you with this person and as the parent to his children she is going to be in his life forever. He will have contact with her and you will always be wondering if something is going on. It’s a recipe for disaster and you constantly feeling paranoid and jealous.

Do you really need to ask? You dump the lying cheat and in future steer clear of recently separated men.

Sorry, but you sound like the rebound. 5 months is far too quick

For the sake of his kids (and yourself), please just keep out of it.

Where do I go from here?

Out of the door of this 'relationship'. Do you still 'really like' him after finding out about this?

Home. You go home.

This. He is a liar and a cheat. And he was making his ex out to be a (no doubt crazy) liar as well.

He lied to you. Appalling.
But he also lied about his ex wife. what did he say about her that you now know is a lie? Think about that.

Sorry but you are the rebound. Best to move on and find someone who is free.

"And has now admitted in the beginning of our relationship he did"

And he's only confessing to that because he's been outed.

Definitely one to let go of. His heart is still with his ex so he'll never be yours.

Where do I go from here?

I'd end it.

They're still married and will always be connected. You'll never trust him and you've only been together for 8 months.. It's just not worth it.