I have just split with a man that in my eyes was abusive he denies a lot of it one min then when he realises he's lost me he admits some of it, I am bedbound with muscular dystrophy and when we would have disagreements he would get angry shout swear throw his phone at me had grabbed wrist on one occasion ripped headphones off my head and grabbed my phone out of my hand once repeatedly poked me in the back because I refused to talk to him whilst he was angry and swearing. When I asked him if he had done this to anyone else he said he's punched a wall before but hasn't actually thrown anything at anyone or grabbed them. What I can't figure out is why do this to me then he argued with other people and I am not argumentative I don't swear I try to remain calm and try to get him to remain calm but he resorts to anger and violence he said other women would argue with him so why didn't he get physical with them? I can only put it down to the fact I am bedbound unwell with muscular dystrophy I can't move away from him to another room or escape the abuse. What are others thoughts on why me and not others?