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Casual hookup acted strange ?

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LexiAllen · 26/06/2024 22:51

So I recently had a causal situation with this guy. He’s a bit older than me but he is fun. Anyways I went into the situation with it being just fun and casual. He’s very flirty and touchy anyways we went out three times. The third time we had s*x after we did it he seemed super quiet. I was being sarcastic trying to lighten the mood he seemed annoyed he even jokingly told me to get out. so I said I was going to leave. He said okay ? So I called my ride because I didn’t want him taking me home knowing where I lived.

He sat across of me and kept telling me “he didn’t want me to go home, and that he wished I could stay longer. I told him I had to leave, he then got up and sat right next to me and started kissing my forehead and hugging me. I put my phone face down and he asked me why I was being secretive? I told him I wasn’t , then he proceeded to ask me to see my phone ? I thought he was playing until he started to teach for my phone I was in shock .

He kept telling me he needed to see my phone to make sure my ride was coming to the right house ?? I told him no. He then got up and sat across from me again and started talking to me. I didn’t hear him and asked him to repeat what he said? He said “nope I’m good whoever your texting is more important than what I have to say”

My ride ended up coming he asked me for a kiss and told me to text him when I got home. The next day he called me twice I tried to call him back but that was it.

I know my ass should have been thankful I made it out of his place…. I was in shock that he was trying to take my phone. I thought when things are casual with men that they don’t trip about certain things.

OP posts:
Opentooffers · 26/06/2024 23:02

He does casual for the wrong reason, which is because his brain can't handle a relationship as he turns psycho jealous.
Seems he's that way with casual too. I think blocking would be sensible here, he's a bit messed up and that's his problem, don't make it yours.
Phone face down is classic hiding behaviour, but as he's only a fling, no reason he should see your phone.
Don't go back, he could ramp it up further.

AndWhatAboutIt · 27/06/2024 11:00

So creepy. I agree with first poster. Block him, he’s only going to get more intense.

Italiansocks · 27/06/2024 14:48

glad you’re ok op
@Opentooffers I never considered that to be the reason some people only do casual, I’ve really learned something there

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