I’ve been dating in a relationship with a guy coming up 4 months- we hit it off pretty quickly and he said he wanted me to be exclusive and then his girlfriend fairly early on into things (no love bombing). It’s progressed at a natural pace and when we’ve felt things we have just gone with it. We see each other once-twice a week usually sometimes more depending on our childcare as we have children individually. Things are great, so great in fact that I’ve fully fallen for him and starting to get incredibly strong feelings for him. When is to soon to the say the L Word I don’t want to scare him off? Or should I let him take the lead with this one - I don’t want anything to mess this up as he is amazing!