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Ok people, advice please?

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justonemorecookie · 09/04/2008 14:36

My background: Been seperated from husband about 2 months now and have a 3 year old daughter. Living in privately rented accomodation with her and although i love her to pieces, sometimes it can be hard. But Ive made my bed, suppose i better lay in it.

Anyway, last weekend i went out with my sister and her friend as it was my first time out for a long time, and she thought i could do with letting my hair down. Ex had our daughter as he does once a week.

To cut a long story short, this guy caught my eye from the first pub and we did a little eye flirting. Well we ended up at the nightclub and he was there aswell. I was slightly tipsy and thought sod it, he seemed shy but thought he was into me, so i made the move and asked him if he wanted a drink. That broke the ice and we chatted for ages. Ended up snogging which was great. Havent been kissed like that for ages. He came round the following night for a meal and drinks and we chatted some more.

He lives in Norwich and im off there this weekend with my mum and sister as its my birthday, and he wants to meet. I really want to, but am really nervous. IS this normal? x

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Iklboo · 09/04/2008 14:37

Course it's normal to be nervous!

claricebeansmum · 09/04/2008 14:38

Of course - your meeting a man who you might have feelings for. It's also really quite exciting!

claricebeansmum · 09/04/2008 14:38

you're

justonemorecookie · 09/04/2008 14:45

Yes it is excitin, I really quite like him. I mean im not looking for another father figure for my daughter, just want a bit of fun. My husband has made me feel poo about myself for so many years now.

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claricebeansmum · 09/04/2008 14:49

Is this the guy you are shaving for?

jesuswhatnext · 09/04/2008 14:51

very normal - so long as dd is being cared for, go for it

justonemorecookie · 09/04/2008 14:53

I was considering shaving for him. Thing is i know ill be itching for ages, and possibly be spotty. Maybe ill just take it as short as i can, without doing so. We have been having such lovely text messages since first kiss, and really excited about meeting him again.

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ginnedup · 09/04/2008 18:31

Go for it!

I'm very

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