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Porn Consumption

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Letmeland · 24/06/2024 07:01

Recently ran across a thread here that got my attention.

OP is concerned by her new partner's penchant for "verbal aggression" in the boudoir. She expresses discomfort with the use of degrading language, name-calling and such. Many replies to this post have urged extreme caution, warning of possible porn overconsumption, a misogynistic view of women etc in short, weird behavior that's not healthy.

But what of the women who encourage it? Have they been over watching porn to fetishize it too? Obviously there's some who'd consider being insulted acceptable or even a turn on themselves. I can't get my head around it at all.

Honest opinions anyone?

OP posts:
Missingpotatocroquettes · 24/06/2024 08:11

People have had kinks and fetishes long before internet porn. I don't think there's anything wrong with some name-calling between two consenting parties, who both enjoy it. Personally, I enjoy it and I don't watch any kind of porn 🤷🏻‍♀️

The issue with it being so common in internet porn is that men don't think they need to have a discussion about it with their partner first and think it's just part of standard sex.

Watchkeys · 24/06/2024 08:54

Your question is 'Why do some women enjoy some things sexually?', have I got that right? I don't think we're meant to get our heads round this, are we? If those women's partners do/say things they don't like, they need to deal with it, not diagnose it. And if they do like it, then... what's the question?

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