Hi, ladies.
Long story short. I have a 13 year old from a previous relationship. My partner has a 9 and a 6 year old from a previous relationship.
We have a 4 year old today, I fell pregnant 2 months into the relationship. We barely knew each other but grew and went from strength to strength.
We hit a rough patch last September, after we got engaged and booked a date (interfering in laws and he still worked for his ex-mother in law). Ever since, he's been secretly drinking, what can be 10 pints several times a week. He lies about his alcohol use. It's so bad he can no longer get an erection. We are 6 months off getting married, and planned another baby shortly after the wedding, but following growing up with an alcoholic dad, I'm just resenting him. I'm so angry and don't know how to get our relationship on track.
He's upset that I'm upset. He says I'm dragging the relationship down with being negative. He blames me for his drinking saying I'm not supportive.
I feel at a loss.