Separated from cheating, abusive ex husband. Divorce hasn’t started yet, I will have to initiate as even though he left for the married OW, there hasn’t been a push as yet.
We communicate re. children and I try to be as amicable as possible at changeover times but contact is limited due to extensive emotional abuse which I am thankfully recovering from and my children and I are happy and safe in our home.
Last night at a school event, husband was to
drop off (parents weren’t to attend) and I was to pick up DC as he only does after school visits, no overnights mid week due to work.
When I arrived to pick up, he was there too. He spoke with DC for a moment, then we got
to leave, separately. As we were walking out, he turns and says let me take a photo of you and the children. I politely said no and suggested just the children, he completely ignored it and took a couple of pictures.
I just feel really uncomfortable knowing he has pictures of me on his phone, I know this may sound silly but he really wore me down at the end of our marriage, like really and it just felt like a simple boundary that I wanted to uphold and I couldn’t.