I employ a very young woman at work. She is roughly the same age as my daughter, so I can't help but feel somewhat protective towards her. I don't know much about her personal circumstances but I am aware that she has a challenging relationship with her mother and stepfather, and I think she still lives with them. I understand that her father died when she was very young.
She has disclosed to her line manager (and a number of other colleagues) that she is in an abusive relationship. I don't know much detail. Her line manager is supporting her and will direct her to sources of support. The employee is quite timid and I don't think she would feel comfortable talking to me because of my position in the organisation. So I wondered about leaving a book on her desk (in an envelope for privacy), and whether anyone might have any suggestions of books that might help her... I'm sure I have seen stuff recommended on here previously. I would be happy to leave a note saying that it was from me if appropriate.
Please tell me if this is a really bad idea. I just want to help if I can. She is young, vulnerable and has her whole life ahead of her...I can't bear to think of her getting trapped in an abusive relationship.
TIA