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CantBelieveNaive · 20/06/2024 22:07

Husband is very annoying and gas lights and patronising.i hate his tone of his voice and it triggers me. I read it as he talks down to me, he says it is in my head.

He thinks its me being unreasonable and says I need therapy but I feel I don't. He is having therapy and to be fair he has improved a lot.

After a lot of health issues & hrt I am feeling better but he is still triggering me.

I feel a bit low but due to the state of the world, Putin, trump, Gaza, isn't everyone? Plus state of world for when going backwards.

Is it me, him or both? We're going round in circles.

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altmember · 20/06/2024 22:43

Sounds like both of you. Why don't you give therapy a try, even your husband has opened himself up to that. It may be that you're just not compatible. But then why did you marry someone you find annoying and patronising?

CantBelieveNaive · 22/06/2024 11:47

Hi thanks for coming back to me.
He didn't start out annoying and patronising! lol

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