I'm embarrassed because he said i peed myself

[Littlel1982]

After being intimate with a man, just touching not full sex. I pulled my jeans on and I felt a bubble of fluid leak from my vagina. He started laughing and said I peed myself and even though it didn't feel like I peed myself he was laughing at me as could be seen through my jeans. Then he messaged and still going on how I peed myself with lol after it

I'm embarrassed and feel ashamed. Has the bubble thing happened to anyone else or did I really pee myself?

☝️ this reply. Even if it was pee then he's still awful

I'd tell him if he can't handle a woman's body he should reconsider his sexuality

Because I'd put my jeans on it was 10 mins after I felt a bubble and went oh ffs.. He burst out laughing. When he messaged me later and mentioned it said sorry I made you pee yourself, I said I didn't pee myself.. His reply was you sure there was alot of it.
It didn't feel alot but it was noticeable because some went accross my leg I could see it

Really, are you saying you're both in your 30's and still neither of you know what bodies can do when sexually excited?
Perhaps you both need to do some reading up on things.

The only embarrassment should be coming from his immaturity, what a twat.

If you didn't feel that you were peeing, it wasn't pee. It is sexual fluids from a gland that can release fluid when exited.
The felling is very different, I know it because I'm one of those who experience it.
He is a twat that doesn't know much about sex. Send him some articles about it and bin him.

In the event that was pee, I don't think it was, what? I don't see the problem is not like you have peed his pants on purpose.
Just bin him.

This.......... 🧐

It made me doubt myself. Like did I pee myself? He's never messaged me again after it.

He’s a buffoon. Block.

Goodness me. I assumed this was two teenagers.

Yes this is perfect.

What a vile immature little boy of a man

Oh that's excellent 👌 please do this OP

Any reason you didn't post this in the sex topic?

You didn't pee yourself, it's just arousal that decided to make itself known in one go when you stood up.

Thrown the dickhead back in the sea. He's an idiot and not mature enough for sex.

Yep. It reads like two virgins having their first fumble rather than adults approaching 40

Tbh there are a fair number of posts in Relationships or even AIBU that on the face of things seem more appropriate for the Sex topic.
However, as someone who sometimes reads the Sex topic forum, I can fully understand why a lot of OP are reluctant to post there. There is an unpleasant vibe on the Sex topic forum with a lot of emphasis on fetish and sex clubs etc and people for whom sex seems to be their main obsession in life. I feel their attitude to less "worldly wise" posters could be intimidating and they probably feel the type of advice more useful to them is to be gained in the Relationships forum.

Think it is.

Is it this guy?

Had to bite on this one.

It's not misplaced in this forum, OP decided to post here and your pointing it out to go to another one is quite rude. It's not that deep.

If locations of a post bother you to the point of posting about it then you need to have a step back about letting small things bother you so much

I’d say this was more a relationship issue than a sex issue, so she was absolutely right to post it here @BIWI

Thank you for your kind advice @pinksheetss

I shall give myself a stern talking to.

Stick to the topic, people. Littlel1982 wants to know about the times other people have pissed/squirted/leaked out of their vaginas.

(FYI real women don't pee out of their vaginas.)

I don't want to take the bait and contribute to this shed lol.

But I've never known of extremes of non-semen related stuff leaking out so much after non-sex that it's visible through a woman's jeans.

I know some women 'squirt' (which is urination, from the urethra) but I don't think that amount of fluid would come out from a bit of a 'bubble' after non sex. Not to be visible from the outside of thick material and briefs.

Maybe I'm too much of a skeptic, or I haven't lived.

But I know now maybe some women will describe their experiences in exactly the way the thread creator probably wanted.

But I know now maybe some women will describe their experiences in exactly the way the thread creator probably wanted.

My point exactly. A thread for Herberts if ever there was one. At least in the sex topic they can be corralled out of the way of the rest of us.