I was asking the kids to brush their teeth. Husband told me to shut up and stop telling everyone what to do. I’m just trying to get everyone ready on time for school. I had just braided my hair which had taken me a while, my husband grabs at one of the braids to purposefully upset me, in a reaction I turned round and slapped him round the head. He then cornered me in bathroom and would not let me leave saying I needed to apologise. Which I refused. He then went into the bedroom and closed the door. I opened it and he had his fist out ready for me to walk into which I did. I then pushed him on the bed. I have been in dv relationship before for 6 years and I would never fight back, I made a promise to myself that if any man ever does that again I would. Am I in the wrong? He says I am