I was very upset as my partner of 2.5 years didn't get me anything for my birthday, not even a personal message I just got the generic 'happy birthday' txt as he was at work, but he could of called but chose not too, made me feel shite all day on my bd, I didn't mention anything and waited till we got into bed and asked him did he really not going to do anything to celebrate my birthday, I was met with greif which I didn't need on an already shite day, he takes his stress out on me and dosemt see that he does and then dosent speak to the person that causes his stress, which is frustrating! He wanted to go for a lie down, which annoyed me as its his day off I don't get a single day to do what I want as I am full time mum, the babies bath was due which I do every night, and he expected me to cook dinner also after babies bath while he goes for a lie down, I felt that was a bit of a piss take as I hadn't stopped all day, so I just said to him must be nice to just lay down and not worry about anything being done, he took offence, I did regret saying what I said so I cuddled him on the bed and just tried to explain that sometimes it would be nice to be able to just do what I want, as being a full time mummy can be overwhelming sometimes, he scoffed and said he works all the time he dosent get much time to do what he wants, and that I have more time than him, which I explained the only time I get to myself is when the baby is in bed and even then most nights am studying for university, so no I don't get alot of me time, some days I don't feel like I have time for a shower! Which is starting to make me feel like crap I used to always do my makeup and dress nice, but now I feel like am just cleaning or doing house work or feeding a baby my comfys are the go to which don't look attractive, but still he says who's stopping me from doing what I want for me time, which frustrates me as I would take time for me but I would feel guilty for asking him to help with the house stuff or even the baby as he works, so I just don't ask, all I wanted him to understand that sometimes it would be nice not having to do or worry about doing something, but he took it I was calling him lazy! And went to sleep I went and bathed baby, and left partner in bed while I sat downstairs, he then wakes up hungry and instantly ignores me prepares himself food, I go in to kitchen ask if he likes a cuppa, he said no but I was met with such a atmosphere that he wouldn't even look at me, which made me upset and he always makes me feel guilty, how do I overcome this? As I am very sensitive and don't feel I have anything to be guilty about what do you all think?